Friday evening. Teo’s regular poker night. High ceilings and good company, but I wasn’t there. My friends were and told me later. I was sitting at a piano all night composing. It felt so good to play over and over again; to reharmonize the prechorus; to take all the feedback I go tfrom the songwriter’s circle and just sit with it. I loved writing essays at UCLA so much (nerd alert). Every one was a discovery- the realization of some epiphany. If it wasn’t, then you weren’t writing a good essay. In a good drama when asked which character garners the most sympathy, the answer should be when!? These concepts applu beautifully to songs, and for this reason, I enjoyed my Friday night as emotions pulled back and forth and discovery was made (ah passive voice).
Saturday- Stomping Girl Winery Pinot Noir release party in Berkeley. Deborah Crooks, a fellow musician played among the barrels as Jacob and I examined maps of grape-growing country and tried their efforts. I can reccommend the Split Rock Pinot- mild and oakey; not acidic (my pet peeve). I regaled Jacob with my obsession with Deborah’s fabulous style- musically and fashionwise. She played with her usual fantastic guitarist, but also with a young, vibrant violist who seemed to be effortlessly improvising over the Linda Williamsesque tunes. I must find out her name! Jacob and I then walked to Teance on 4th street and shared a flight of teas. This is my favorite thing to do for those of you who haven’t heard. The large round table at the tea house is so amazing- you have to go there to understand why. People walked in just because they’d heard about it. Anyway, the owner was kind enough to educate us as she poured and we settled on our favorite- Bai Lin Gong Fu red tea. Chocolatey stuff.
Next Whit and I went to the Warrior’s game for Irish Heritage Night. We saw cousin Ava dance at half-time. It brought tears to my eyes. The formations were beautiful and impressive from so high up. The fiddle raised my heartbeat. I’m very proud of my cousin.
Later that night I met up with Julie, Maren, Nikki and my sister at the house of those who shall not be named (I try not to blog directly about new friends lest they fear being googled etc). They were kind enough to ask me to play a song for them. It felt so great to be with my favorite people and their favorite people. I played “Not About Friday.” It’s a bit altered since the last performance and it felt good to move so fast inbetween the chords. The rest of the night is all generosity, dancing, the best part. The part I can’t blog about but inspired me to blog. Things I haven’t done and felt in a long time. The best parts of life that Julie enhances with her energy. The joy of wanting the night to stretch into a big blue taffy (literary mechanisms please subdue yourselves). The comradery of singing lyrics together in a giant club. A lot more than sticks in the memory, slowing amplifying in my aging interpretation.
Sunday Day: Early morning on my sister’s couch. The question of how wildly my arms flailed as I danced last night. I sometimes forget how tall I am and have to hope that no one was injured. On to the coolest event ever. Beerunch. My brother and his fellow microbrew masters threw the hippest event with the help of volunbeers like myself. Like tea, this event was about nuance, process and taste. Oh, and 200 people on a sunny deck eating deliciousness while listening to great music. Check out the Beerunch website for the amazing menu. My favorites were the Mateveza with the best huevos rancheros I’ve ever had and the 21st Ammendment Belgian Ale with honey ham. Nicole and Frank were there with their beer expertise, along with a gaggle of other familiar faces. Tony of Alma Desnuda fame enjoyed the party. Wehelped ready the room together and talked about albums and such.
The party morphed into a day-long extravaganza. I eventually left for a superbowl party in Pac Heights and then a author lecture at the Union Room downtown. I read this book about touring that I really liked, so I got to hear the author speak for a little while. Then it was back to North Beach to meet up with friends. By weekend’s end, I had walked all over the city, sometimes beating my heel-wearing, cab-taking friends and I loved it. Hope this passion stays with me. It can only lead to more blogs and songs. I’m very lucky that you are readying it.
Now the bad news since I just heard it. Apparently a company found out how many web hits “Grace Woods” was getting so they bought the domain gracewoods.com from the owner who owned it since forever ago (an Indonesian lumber company that didn’t even use it) and now they are selling it for 2,588 bucks because they are currently receiving revenues from people going there by accident and seeing the ads they post there. The Indonesian lumber company didn’t want to sell it etc etc until this money hungry company pulled it off somehow. Well, it’s a shame since it’s obviously someone’s name. I understand actions like buying howtomakeeggs.com and things that promote something you are doing- I don’t know. The only purpose of this move, however, is to make money. There are no woods or grace about it. ‘Nough said. Moving on. Unless someone thinks I should start a donation button here to buy the domain from them so that it actually has something to do with itself, art, love, music, life and the free exchange of ideas. I’d even be happy to mention the mission, the senior living center and the children’s blog on my site that have similar names and would benefit from people not being led astray by this silly company. Let me know what you think.